Friday, 1 February 2013

Sweet Disposition


I told you lot I’d be back. And here I am, starting with a mini rant! As some of you may be aware, there’s an English footballer called David Beckham. Mr Beckham is an icon to many, whether it be for his footballing skills and accolades, his fashion sense and ability to wear anything and look good, or THAT advert.

This morning, I woke up to news that Beckham had signed for Paris Saint Germain for 5 months and would donate all of his salary to a local children’s charity. WOW! This made me do a happy cry. A reported £150,000 per week to a charity. It blows my mind that somebody would something so selfless.

What shocked me was the negativity that some people feel towards his decision. How can there be anything but positivity surrounding this situation? I’m looking at this from a layperson’s perspective so I admit, I may be missing something. Here’s some of what I saw:
·         He’s doing it to avoid the tax.
Erm, no he’s not. He’s only there for 5 months and isn’t eligible for the French tax system.

·         That amount is nothing to him.
So, somebody chooses to donate their salary for 5 months to a charity and it’s nothing? It doesn’t matter about his wealth, he will be working for free for those months. Yes, he gets an income from sponsorship deals, but he will be doing his job for free. For 5 months. How many people would choose to do that? Plus, the amount he’s donating will make a difference to the charity – that’s the important thing, surely?

·         He should donate to a British charity.
Should he? Is there something in our heritage that states that we are only able to give our money to charities based in the country we were born in? A local Parisian charity is benefitting from somebody’s generosity. I’ll take some words out of that sentence. A charity is benefitting. Why do people have a problem with this?

·         Lots of people do the same and remain anonymous.
That is their choice. I’m not taking away from what anybody does. That people to donate to charity is a wonderful thing. David Beckham is a huge name all over the world. Imagine the publicity and coverage that charity will get from this, raising awareness for their cause. They won’t need to spend money on marketing.

I’ve recently had a really lovely experience with a small charity. I got in touch with them, after learning about their cause, in December. The ladies at the charity were grateful for my support and contact but, as it was almost Christmas, asked me to make sure I felt able to donate as much as I wanted to, every month. A charity had taken my needs in to consideration. When does that happen? I’m used to getting calls from larger charities I already donate to, asking me to give more. I contacted these ladies last week and said I was setting up my direct debit. Their gratitude was enough to bring me to tears. (Yes, okay, that seems to be quite easy!) They’ve invited me to go and see them when I visit Liverpool, in March, for a cuppa and a chat. Because they’re so thankful that I am behind their cause. In my experience, a larger charity has never invited me in to their office for a cuppa, even after I’ve agreed to donate more over the telephone, having received one of their calls.

My point is, it doesn’t really matter where the money is going or the reason. A person has decided to donate some money to charity. There is no negativity here. We should be humbled that a great cause benefits from somebody’s generosity. A selfless act. Mr David Beckham, props to you! x